A bit weird one, this - Little story for you all. Advice would be good! Without sounding like a tool, I’m not perhaps the usual 32-year old male who you might find spending 15 mins writing on an internet forum about ‘dating advice,’ but I suppose that shows how keen I am on this particular, non-teachery girl (I’m a teacher!)… If I’m honest, I’ve had a ton of relationships and, alas, it’s often me who’s ended them very early and I’m far from ‘inexperienced’ when it comes to the fairer gender but, even so, this one confuses… …For the past three weeks, I’ve been talking to a girl who I met on an internet dating site. Oh yes. She’s a very nice girl too and we got on amazingly (perfectly, even – Weird, I know!). Perhaps the first-ever time where there's been so much compatability. We finally met Saturday and went out all day and it was very, very nice. So ‘nice,’ in fact, that I ended up going back to hers… (well she did ask!). I woke up Sun morning and got a train home later that afternoon after going out a bit for a walk with her etc. As the previous day and night had been quite ‘busy,’ I told her she should call me later that evening after she’d slept etc and so we didn't speak that afternoon. She did call around 8pm last night. We spoke for quite some time and a little bit more later! (wow). Here’s my problem:- (and please, please don’t think I’m being an insecure nutter coz I’m not, honest). I just don’t think she’s 100% keen. Ever had that feeling? Why do I think this? Well, she was a little shorter with me last night. I also called her this morning to which she has texted back sometime later: “Sorry, I was driving, will speak to you tonight” which, pre-date, she just wouldn’t have done! Also, a plan for her to come to a friend’s party in a few weeks time (discussed before we met) was met, I felt, with a little-less enthusiasm yesterday morning just before we parted. Getting there might be difficult – traffic etc. On the other hand, she did tell me she was free again this coming weekend and she spent part of that morning on the phone to her parents telling them about me and the date etc (God!). Obviously, they had no idea I was still there with her…!I’m not looking for people to say “She’s keen!” or “She’s NOT keen!” (impossible to tell and you’re only getting my side of things anyway!) but I’ve always felt that when gut-instincts tell you something, you’re usually right. And my instincts are telling me this ain’t gonna go nowhere. So here’s the question. Should I send her a text or whatever saying “Look, I think you’re lovely but would you prefer it if we just left the weekend as a one-off?” (or something along those lines) or would you just ‘leave it and wait and see’? I don’t want to sound like a kn-b, but I just don’t want to be seeing a girl on and off for the next 3 or 4 months or whatever to then be told that she “just isn’t so keen” etc. I’m sure we’ve all been there and I know I’ve done that very thing to girls in the past (just one earlier this year, in fact). On the other hand, I don’t want her to think I clearly feel very negative towards the whole thing and am already up for 'closing the door,' when, in fact, that isn't what I want. Whatta yah reckon, people?