I have no idea. Just got a new job to start in aug so need to wait a while. Dont think it would look too good! Altho I always knew that would happen since I was only temp this year (in Scotland permanent jobs are like gold dust so I am very lucky to have one!). So not really sure. OH isn't really ready yet anyway so will just wait and see (patiently of course!!!!!!!!!!) I am quite an organised person and like to know when things will be happening so it is quite hard to not know when we will at least start trying. Dont want to fight with him about it anymore tho (had a few disagreements before I got perm job - I was like why wait and he was far more sensible and thinking about money etc, which, of course, he was right about!! Not that I would admit that to him .....) plus I cant rush him to be ready, that would be a disaster! Bit of a ramble I know! What about you? Will you start straight after the wedding?