I have four friends from university and we are spread out across the UK. We try to arrange to meet up reasonably regularly but this went from every main holiday (Christmas Easter and summer) to twice yearly and now just once a year. We didn't go last year because one of the women had a baby in December 2009 so it was too early but now discussions are about meeting at Easter and originally the plan was to go up to Edinburgh for a weekend. I said I couldn't do this as I don't want to leave the children, also I'm still breastfeeding my youngest mornings and evenings. I suggested they stayed at mine for a weekend and they were OK with this but now plans have changed and they want to go for a weekend of nights out in Birmingham. I feel annoyed that plans have changed, and that the fact I can't go clearly doesn't bother them. Do you think I am being reasonable?