Hello fellow part timers! My job share is lovely and I feel we work well together, however she is constantly messaging me on my days off asking whether I have done things, where things are etc etc. We have a heavy workload and I don’t always have time to get through everything but I often get messages/calls asking where a piece of work is or did x or y get done. Most of the time it is things that I have had to put on the back burner as something else came up and it didn’t seem that important but every time I get a message asking me about something I feel dreadful and anxious, like i’m failing because I haven’t done everything. I sometimes end up going in on my day off to sort things out but if I don’t I end up feeling guilty as I get a response saying there’s no time and she will have to do it. There are similar things my job share doesn’t get around to doing and I just assume she didn’t have time, I try not to bother her on her day off unless it’s really important. I know it sounds trivial but it’s really stressing me out and every time I get a message my heart sinks wondering what it is i’ve not done now, and I feel like a failure. I just want to relax on my days off not worry like this. We do have a diary where we leave notes for each other about what we have and haven’t done but obviously can’t write down every single thing. Am I being over sensitive? I can’t just ignore the messages as they are not emails (which I try not to reply to now when I am off work). Do all part timers feel like this?