Hi, just wondering this as I'm currently internet dating and feeling very out of the loop as I haven't dated anyone for about 3 years! I don't really meet guys in my day to day life (all women at work and all my friends are female) so thought I'd give it a go. I've done internet dating several times in the past and nothing has ever come of it. Anyway, have been on 3 dates with one guy who is local to me and we've had a good laugh. So far I don't feel any attraction but really enjoy his company and we have a good laugh. He has sent me some flirty texts and always suggested meeting again which makes me think he must be interested. However, due to the nature of internet dating, I always feel this 'pressure' to decide if I think I like someone or not quite early on! I'm worried now he might try and kiss me or something (which would be awkward as I'm not attracted as yet!) whereas if I met him in a group of friends you wouldn't be thinking whether or not a relationship might develop but just enjoying each other's company. So the question is, those of you who are in relationships, did you fancy your o/h straight away or did it develop over time? Should I keep seeing this guy even though I don't fancy him but then perhaps that might change in time?