I am not a big fan of personal information on the net but I have needed to join Facebook to follow with the times. My question is when someone links me as a friend, can they see when I am checking their pages/photos? And vice-versa? Is there a 'these people have been checking you' link? And can I neutralise the site completely? Everytime I open it I get the private site of a friend and I am not sure I should be reading what she writes. Facebook virgin, me.