I have posted on here before and received some thoughtful advice and am now seeking further insight. My mother in law's health has deteriorated rapidly and the nursing home are implementing end of life care. We were asked last weekend by the gp what we wanted for her and said it was best for her to remain in the home not go to hospital. My sister in law had travelled from another part of the UK to visit and was with us when this was discussed. She cried a d said to me that her mum was dying then promptly left to go back home the next day. Both my husband and I were so shocked at this that we haven't spoken to her since. Each day my mother in law is getting weaker and weaker. She barely has the energy to speak. Should I just leave my sister in law to it or should I make it clear to her how weak she is so she could come back and be with her Mum when she goes? She doesn't work and says she's worried about her dog but she could bring the dog with her as she has done in the past. I think it's so sad that she may die with her son and daughter in law with her but not her daughter.