My partner went out last night at 10pm saying he was going to visit a friend in hospital. When I finished watching a programme I realised that could not be true due to it being so late for hospital visiting hours. So I called him. On the phone he became extremely defensive and agitated. Anyway to cut a long story short he told me where he was, entirely innocent but he came home angry. He said by calling him (which I have never done before like this by the way), I had embarrassed him in front of his friend. He said I should trust him despite his lie and I should know that there was something important for him if he lied to me like this. He is adamant that I should just accept what he says as he would never do something wrong. I was being made to feel as though this is my fault, and I don’t understand why. In the morning turned on the charm and was overly nice. But I cannot take this kind of mental stress anymore. How do I walk away from someone I have children with and a house.