I am rarely whisked into a frenzy, however, I do care a lot about my younger sister, who tragically married a man she met at a biscuit factory and then divorced after having one son now aged 12. A large fat American who teaches in a private school in the UK, some 20 years her senior, came into her life about 2 years ago and now they plan to be married. She is to be flown to the States for this happy event, and despite asking for family to come, including my daughter as bridesmaid, the American's can't accommodate and don't want to! |( We were prepared to pay for this). In his dismissal of anyone British at his big Fat Jewish Wedding ( my sister RC), he stated by email that my sister was "vulnerable but would put on a good show", and that there was no room at the inn as 40 people he hadn't seen since 1982 had already agreed to come to the wedding. Could this man be a biggot?