Our oldest daughter is going to uni this year, living in halls, but near enough to come home pretty much whenever she wants. My OH has just announced to me that, by the way, he does not expect to see her bringing any of her washing home to mix in with the family load at the weekend, as she shouldn't expect to be getting financial help with accommodation and also get the perks of living at home. I think this sounds a very odd and petty thing to be worth taking any sort of stance on, he thinks it is odd that I would be happy to keep on doing whatever washing she might bring back when she is not living at home. What do y'all think? What's usual?