Maybe you should discuss a compromise. My husband I do our own thing until dinner be that work or cook or play with the kids. From dinner onwards we stop work. It's eating together then an hour or so of tele. We go up to bed around 11 and have 'private time' or just chatting. When we go to sleep I then spend half an hour or so Reading or on tes and C plays his football ds thingy. It means I can't post much as I'm only online max an hour a day but C never complains because we've spent time together too. It's worked this way for 5 years now. Also because I check in bed I read out the interesting posts and it's a bit of a discussion. He pretends to be interested in TES and I pretend to be enthusiastic when C scores a goal. When C works late I keep TES on all evening.