First of all, I apologise if this is the wrong place for this type of post. I'm just at a loss. My partner and I have agreed to separate. There's no animosity or anger or any particular reason to cause it, we've just slowly drifted apart over our relationship and aren't in love anymore. We've really tried and tried counselling etc but it just isn't there anymore. It's incredibly sad and I feel like a bit of a failure. Looking ahead to the future, we have two gorgeous children (aged 4 and 1) who mean the world to both of us. Just looking for any advice (even reassurance that they'll be okay) as to how to help them through this process? What can we do to keep them happy as they currently are? I guess in a way we're fortunate that my partner and I will always be very amicable. We've both discussed that we'll still be able to do things as a four etc. I'm sorry if this is a bit incoherent, just all a bit raw at the moment.