having returned to work after a period of sick leave ia hvae been very nervous and frightened. I have been told repeatedly by my H/T no to talk to members of the department about what happened, what lead to my time off or how I have or am feeling. They kept emphasising my responsibility and pointing out that people look up to me so I shouldn't worry them or they will think less of me. I am continuslly told that my colleagues are not my friends and I have to be professional - in other words keep my distance and not be socially involved. is this normal procedure? has anyone else experieinced this treatment?