Come on ... give me some help! Our house is a mess and too small (5 adults) but we're not going to move in the forseeable future. May extend at some point but realistically we just need to create more space by attempting a massive declutter. Any advice? Where to start? We have masses of books (2 teachers, 3 students) and nearly 30 years of accumulated ... stuff. OH is a bit of a hoarder, daughters are sentimental about all sorts of stuff. The loft is full. How do I start? How do I encourage others to part with stuff? Any advice or experiences gratefully received!