On another forum read Theo's comment to a poster "All I can say is what someone once said: "No-one ever has a deathbed regret I wish I had spent more time at work." So what do you think would be your deathbed regret?" set me thinking. Something I said to someone recently, about how I <u>hoped</u> people would 'remember' me. Not for having a clean and tidy house and being well-dressed etc. (which is what my mother believes is important) But for having 'time to listen', 'times when my children remember me just 'playing' with them and having fun, rather than being too busy'. So what about you? Any thoughts?