Last week I sent for details of a post in an independent school. I'm attracted to the job and the school, and tempted to apply, but I already have a good job and I don't want to move just because the grass is greener - I'd have to be convinced it would be better than my current job. I phoned up to ask if I could pop into the school, see the department and perhaps meet one or two of the staff. I wanted to do this to help me decide whether or not to apply. The answer was, "No, you can't". I was very surprised by this and it struck me as quite bizarrely unwelcoming. I'm now in a dilemma because I don't know if I want the job or not, and I can't find out without applying for it. What do you think?