Feeling a tad fed up at the moment, of only ever meeting men who appear have a phobia of commitment! This one I genuinely thought was interested. We've met up a few times, nothing's happened between us at all but he seemed keen to stay in touch and keep seeing me. Then I met up with him last night on a night out with friends and we were having a great time until I bit the bullet and told him that I quite liked him, to which he then told me that he couldn't let anything happen between us because he wasn't ready for a relationship and didn't want to hurt me (sure I've heard that one before!) Did not see that one coming at all :-(. Can somebody tell me where to find the nicer guys please - I know they're out there somewhere...!