Debbie, my flesh is tingling at what I've just read. My courage is limited to being considered a moaner over certain matters such as evidencing [horrible word] and the revoltingly completist, semi-literate wording of the SSs. I have to make sure that my scepticism isn't just seen as age-related unwillness to embrace change. I spread subversion wherever I can [we've just had a brilliant PGCE student who has gone out into the world aware that the evidncing regime is a crock] but I should so more. I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter. I lost my 18-yr-old son ten years ago, suddenly, from congenital heart disease. Pain beyond imagining.