Oh dear! My daughter (lovely as she is) has been the adult in our relationship for quite some time and I keep doing things that reassure her that I am a bit loopy! Today I rang them to wish them Happy Wedding Anniversary and was secretly really pleased with myself for remembering the right day ie 2 days before s-i-l's birthday! Alas I have got it wrong it is not until next Tuesday ie 2 days AFTER s-i-l's birthday. I keep doing little things like this which just feeds their opinion of me being scatty and therefore not always trustworthy - you should have seen the 'inservice training' I got for the pram and car seats, which I had to deliver, when she was lending them to my niece!!!! Arrrgghhh - anyone else struggling with this or am I really getting batty?