Any advice or encouragement, please? Found out Tuesday my bad bowel problems aren't actually a colonic issue. It's ovarian cancer. I have the hugely swollen belly to go with it and am going in for a tap tomorrow. Breathing is SO hard. So I've read enough to realise it's stage 3 or 4. I have a pelvic mass that was found on the MRI we paid for ourselves. Good news is I can go to a Birmingham hospital and they have one of the best survival rates in the country but I'm having a CT scan on Wednesday and obviously no date to be admitted or any ideas if I'll be offered surgery and chemo. So. Anyone got any positive stories? Bit of encouragement? Or shall I start giving my stuff away right now? Ta muchly!