Just before Christmas my husband declared that he he hasn't loved me for years and has been living a lie and can't go on any longer... I knew he had doubts but thought that we could work it out because our relationship is genuinely solid, respectful and natural. We have an 11 year old son who is devasted because all he has ever seen is a happy well adjusted mutually respectful relationship and a great team. He can't understand why his Dad is leaving the house to live elswhere. (I might say my husband is being very supportive and moving close by so he can be there for him and continuing to finance me through my PGCE) I just want to know that after 22 years in what has been a great relationship, how I can move on.