Okay so I work at the same school as my sibling, and recently some middle leadership positions have become available - and we both want the same one. I haven't asked advice from my parents because I know they will tell me I should look for something else. But why should I? Am I so wrong to think I shouldn't chance my choices to suit him? But that is the way it has always been in my family. Everything is meant to be perfect for him and not for me. However, I am concerned that it will become very awkward and unbearable. Any advice on how to handle this if one gets the job?