OK ladies (this one is not for the menfolk), following on from Lil's handy household hints onpersonal here's what to do if childbirth has wrecked your bladder! I had surgery in 2007 after 10 years of 'not being able to use a trampoline'. The op was called TVT (trans vaginal tape) or a sling operation. It sorted me out and I've not looked back. Brilliant. Don't be embarassed.................go to your GP for a referral. Op done one day, home the next day and fully recovered very soon afterwards. Can be done under local or general anaesthetic. Voila!!!!