Dear all, some advice please, I suffered a beareavement last night, it's still very raw and painful, and a huge shock as I was the one who found him. I'm trying to pull it together because I have a job interview today, but i just know I'm going to look like some scary-eyed lunatic. I want to go to the interview, but am worried it might be too much. So my question, would you mention anything in a quiet aside at the start of the day? Not as a way of requesting special treatment, but just as a way of letting them know I'm not on top form and maybe need a bit of time out during the day? Not sure on the done thing here. should i say nothing and just withdraw if necessary if it's too much? Can anyone advise?