Hello, I am a NQT at my local secondary school. I live locally and it is also the school where 3 of my 4 children go. This means that alot of the children know me or at least know my children and therefore could easily find out my name if they don't already know it. I have to say I have very few problems with this. If a student calls me by my first name it is usually by mistake in the corridor when they are saying hello and I just remind them that is Mrs Anderson in school. I tend to tackle new classes with a disclaimer along the lines of "Yes, I do have 3 children here, yes, my first name is no secret as you only have to ask pretty much anyone to find out. They don't use it in school so you don't need to, any other questions?" It tends to work a treat and I have not had any problems with it at all.