Split up with my ex 3 months ago, I posted plenty on here about the reasons for it. The main ones being him just not sorting himself out as he said he would when I moved my life a yr ago to be with him (how stupid was I). I have had interest from other guys, and have occupied myself chatting to, and meeting a couple of internet dates. Both of which I have knocked on the head. Not my 1st break up, one of many relationships I have ended. The difference is I feel really down about this one now, whereas notmally I am well on the road to recovery! I saw the ex at the weekend and it was so frustrating, we get on so well and he wants to get back together but he is still working in the family cafe and living at home despite being capable of so so so much more. He has hardly been out since the split and just goes to rugby training/games or stays at home reading, and he is still saying he wants to make changes, but hasn't done so 'at the moment'. I just want to shake him until he finds some way forward, but I know he will never change and it is really upsetting me that there is no way forward for us because of that. I know I made the right decision in ending it, but it just hurts so much now and it hasn't for ages. I have made more of an effort with the meet up group I joined, having lost a lot of home connections when I moved to try and avoid feeling isolated. At the minute I just feel alone, sad and frustrated.