Congratulations! All well I hope? Chica, how did you arrange things with the meal and so on? Did he sleep in a seat or anything? Chiquita will be a similar age when we go to this wedding. Mister Flibble, that's inexcusable on your relative's part and I would have been devastated too. If my friend had asked for 'no babies' then of course it wouldn't even be a question, but she's named on the invitation, which is why I think in principle it's fine- I just need to sort out the practicalities.