Someone used to organise a dating site on here? But that was a while ago. I thought I would start up a discussion as I do think of people on their own (lets face it too many teacher forgo a social life for work).in the holidays. I'm trying to help a friend find a caring boyfriend. Her present boyfriend of five years has decided to spend his birthday with his family and she has just found out, when she suggested going away to celebrate that he is too busy and can't take the time off. Why ? Because he is going with his family to share a holiday house in France. (Not that he told her.) This doesn't sound like the sort of friend she needs. So is there anyone in TES land , male and single in London area in their 40's? She likes the arts and history.