I've scored an awesome job in SE Asia, an absolute dream. We've decided my partner of 20 years isn't joining me- we are planning on seeing each other 6 times in the year in the holidays with him coming to me during the shorter hols and me back to the UK for the main ones. We are hoping after a couple of years he will get a job in the area too. Anyone done the same/similar and got any advice for me how to deal with missing each other (and my dog!) We are a v solid couple with 100% trust FYI. Any words of wisdom appreciated!