My husband and I are going through a really **** time at the moment as you have probably read on some of my other postings. Last night we had a really great chat and things seemed a lot brighter so today I felt happy for the first time in God knows how long. It was shortlived. Tonight he has announced that he has reserved a puppy and has not asked what I think? One of our problems is that we don't have a lot of money. Should I be mad that he has done this without asking me?