As the family get older I seem to be the one stuck doing the juggling this Xmas. I'm stuck between the high speed lives of the younger generation - demanding jobs, growing families and the crumbling edifice that is my parents life. Add other family members with mh problems and things begin to wobble a bit. I don't expect much - just want to see them all at some stage close to Xmas day to exchange presents and it would be particularly good if I could spend at least half a day with the two sons together but that might be a bridge to far. It used to be so much easier when they were all younger and did as they were told.