Trying at the moment not to get snarky or frustrated with some of my friends and their love lives. One of them is still avoiding places she might see a boy and questioning his motives when they do talk briefly, a year after a three month relationship. The other is still letting herself be led on by a boy who did this last year - lots of intest shown, then off he pops with a prettier one. They've split up, so now he's back being all attentive to my friend again - but still not doing anything useful like declaring an interest. These are beautiful intelligent worthy women. Why are they so nuts? I just don't get it!