A friend of mine from uni is getting married in 2 weeks. A few months ago I got a save the date card, then recently I went to the hen. I've also received texts from her about it because she wanted to invite me but not my OH (which caused all kinds of problems with my OH, but which as far as she knows is fine). But 14 days and counting still no invitation-and this is the kind of fancy wedding where things would be done properly... It feels rude to ask her, and also awkward to request an invite to a wedding which my OH isn't now that keen on my going to... Advice?