Ive just started a new job in a slt role and feel like ive made a right bodge up of it. The last 7 weeks have been really hard, looking back, I ve done everything I said I wouldnt, telling people what to do, making judgements too soon, etc. Now I face a brick wall. Ivwe found it really hard to build relationships and with an ofsted due any day, i think ive gone into panic mode to try and get changes made. I am worried that I have started on the wrong foot and feel disappointed that I havent built the good relationships i wanted to. Also hadnt realised how lonely leadership is. Anyone got any good advice? words of wisdom?