is what I have to live on a week till I get another job. Out of that I have to pay mortgage, water et al all without the help of my soon to be ex husband who is still living in the same house (he refuses to move out) and is not paying anything towards the running of said house and hasn't either since last October. The law says I can do nothing about this. I also have to buy food for me and my children, who to be fair, buy some of their own food out of their own limited money (neither are working - one is unable to find a job as yet and the other is at uni). No advice needed, just wanted to share and vent.